Countdown To Surgery
With nicer temps now upon us here in Florida, I’ve been trying harder to get out and enjoy it before my upcoming surgery. I’m having some more breast reconstruction, and will be recovering for more than a month. That means no working out, hiking or off-roading. Since I had complications and infection previously, I have to be extra careful. And that equals extra boring. I’ll be having surgery right before Christmas (ugh) but hopefully I’ll recover in enough time to enjoy the best time of year for hiking in our state.
Being outdoors is my therapy. I don’t get out nearly as much as I should, but I’ve been trying to get out every spare moment I can knowing that soon I’ll be recovering, dreaming of getting out again. I’ve been quite preoccupied as of late. Editing photos of our summer travels, the seemingly endless parade of birthdays, school festivals and functions this time of year has kept me from my regular blog schedule. With a new year approaching, it’s time to get back into the swing of things.
I’m still working out 3 days per week with a trainer and hiking weekends as I can, watching what I eat and pushing toward my goals for my body. It’s not easy and I’m a big whiner at the gym, but I’m doing it and I’ve passed the 15 month mark. I am, however, dealing with a lot of anxiety about being sedentary after this surgery.
There is no doubt that hiking helps me cope with the anxiety. A few weekends ago Rama and I set off to hike some of the hammock trails that we have nearby. They are part of the Merritt Island National Wildlife Refuge surrounding Kennedy Space Center. But due to the recent hurricane they were still under water in many places, so we decided to take a bridge walk and explore some of the Indian River shoreline instead. Linking Titusville and the Refuge and then further out the Canaveral National Seashore, the Max Brewer Bridge is a popular destination for walkers and runners. We hadn’t gone there in quite a while. There was a time that I walked that bridge every day. With the wooded trails flooded out and daylight ticking away, I decided that this was better than nothing. Our other favorite trails are further away and with the recent changing back of the clocks, the sun sets way too early for my taste.
With the marshy wetlands ahead of us and the city behind, I still consider this urban hiking. When you can see the city and condos are a stone’s throw from where you parked, it’s urban hiking. But that’s ok. It’s still exercise, and we are moving and enjoying the glorious breezes that come off the water this time of year. With temps in the 60s that morning, by the time we hit the bridge it was probably 75. Absolute heaven to feel that breeze and sun on your skin. It’s the prescription for whatever ails you.
Movement And Mental Health
We all have our own lives and set of stresses, and learning how to manage them and take care of ourselves is a tough one, especially for moms. We are hardwired to be there for everyone, to put ourselves and our own needs last, and to take care of everyone’s everything. But who takes care of us? The simple fact is that we have to advocate for our own mental health. If we are having a hard time, we pretty much have to suck it up, sweep it under the rug, do whatever we have to do to keep going and keep the house running. Kids still have to be fed, taken to school, helped with homework, etc. As much as we might want to crawl into bed and stay there, we can’t. Maintaining my activity at a certain level is key to my mental (as well as physical) health and wellness.
When you exercise (even 30 minutes a day) you release feel-good chemicals (endorphins) in the brain and this helps to provide a feeling of happiness and boost overall mood. The vitamin D you absorb from the sun also helps in alleviating depression. Even knowing all this, it can seem almost impossible to take that first step. There is no secret. You just have to do it. You will be glad you did. No one regrets how they feel after a workout or a nice long walk. I may bitch and moan about how I don’t want to work out or even leave my bed, but never about how I feel afterward. After a while your body will begin to look different, and this is a huge mood booster. Who doesn’t like looking better?
Getting out and getting exercise makes me feel human again. It wasn’t a walk in the woods, but it was a lovely day and at the other end of the bridge we walked along the shore of the river and looked at the water, the dolphins and the boats going by. It was quiet time with my girl, which was much needed. My life tends to be quite hectic and noisy and I desperately need these moments to re-center myself.
What do you do to achieve wellness? How do you take care of yourself and make sure your mind as well as your body is healthy?